Friendship For Dummies

Hi peeps,




I'm in the mood to tell you about the relationship which is very holy beside the relationship between parents and our loved ones. For me, friendship is vital and crucial in every single living creature in this whole wide polluted world. Friendships are the gift to the mankind. The relations which we get in this world are blood related. However the only relationship which does not related to blood is friendship. Friendship has many forms and shapes. It is like water. If we pour the water into a jug it takes the shape of jug. If you pour the same water into a bowl it takes the shape o bowl. Same way friendships will take a different shapes and sizes according to our heart. Friendship gives pleasure to human beings. Where there is friendship then there will not be any sorrow. When you see a child laughing you will forget your sorrows for a second, the same way when you are with a friend you forget your sorrows. Thus, I have decided to write a friendship guidance based on my friendship with my best buddies. Read it. You will know what friendship is all about.


Always be honest, would you want THEM to lie to you?
Be there when they need you, or you may wind up alone.
Cheer them on; we all need encouragement now and then.
Don't look for their faults, even if you have none.
Encourage their dreams, what would we be without them?
Forgive them, you just MAY do something wrong sometime.
Get together often, misery loves company, so does glee.
Have faith in them, the human animal is remarkable.
Include them; you may need to be included sometime.
Just be there when they need you.
Know when they need a hug, and couldn't you use one?
Love them unconditionally, that is the ONLY condition.
Make them feel special, because aren't we ALL special?
Never forget them, who wants to feel forgotten?
Offer to help, and know when "No thanks" is just politeness.
Praise them honestly and openly.
Quietly disagree, noisy NO's make enemies.
Really listen, a friendly ear is a soothing balm.
Say you're sorry, don't let them assume it.
Talk frequently, communication is important.
Use good judgment.
Verbalize your feelings!
Wish them luck, hopefully good!
Xamine your motives before you "help" out.
Your words count, use them wisely.
Zip your lips when told a secret.

However, if you think that best friend should do everything together, then you’re WRONG! If you want to make your friendship last, watch out for the no-go zone. Thus, to make sure you always stay on cordial terms with your best friend, there’s couple of thing you can do to make her feel appreciated by the relationship. You could email her, remember every crucial date like her job interview or her date with a cute guy, never flirt with the guy she likes and you might go to the gym or go for a jog together so you can see each other regularly. Though we like to think that our relationships are the most important things I our life, truth is most of people value money as more of a priority and can get very aggressive about what happens to their money.


-nur dhiya abdullah-