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Hi peeps,

In despite living in the world of modernization and technology not to exaggerate on the millennium era, I still couldn't understand why some of earth citizens chose to live uniquely and creatively which differs from a normal human being. My one and only question here is: Should we legalize transgender or even worst, gay marriage in Malaysian Law System? To be frank, I do have friends where to a certain extent confused of their sex orientation which later contributed to the man to man relationship. I'm not trying to discriminate them or set them aside from the public. I know that every people have their own point of view however, I do found that having them kissing in the public or even a mere holding hands is quite harmful. Even though watching a drag queen or drag king competition is mesmerizing and overwhelming, literally, and silly yet funny which-make-me-laugh-all-the-way, I still believe that it should not be publicize. Imagine two people of the same sex consenting adults and they want to stand together in public and say 'I'm going to be with this person for the rest of my life'

I know that some of the countries in the world have already enforced the law to allow same sex marriages. A big applause for the queer people eyh? Take United States Of America, one third of the district in America including Iowa, Massachusetts, The Republic of Colombia, Vermont and Connecticut has allowed same sex marriage and even though in some districts, gay marriage is not granted by the state law, man-to-man relationship is still been performed. I'm not trying to be a closed-minded person, but what is the value of marriage where one women and one guy fall in love, get married, have kids and live as a happy family like Adam and Eve were banished in order to legalize same sex marriage. Is it fair? I clearly do not want to be like Blair Waldorf in gossip girl where her dad divorced her mom just because of a male model. Pathetic. Watched Brookback Mountain. You will understand exactly my point. How two families have been destroyed by the defiant man that would rather chose to have relationship with guy rather than women.

Ah! Not forgetting the entire gender queer out there. The memory is still clear as pure water when the first time I went to Lorong Haji Taib in Kuala Lumpur at 1 a.m in the morning. The view is truly breath-taking. I saw shemale everywhere. It is quite funny though. Watching them wearing red bareback dress with super duper low V cut in the front of the dress to persuade guys into sleeping with them. Oh! come on. What actually do you have to show off? Your straight as a ruler shape with flat on your chest with no curvy-licious butt like J.Lo? To my surprise, these unique people are very choosy. They tend to chose foreigner or to be exact, english guy rather than Malaysian guys. I once saw an english guy heading to the Shangri-La hotel with two shemale. Not one but, TWO. One for each side of him. Left and right. When the clock hit 2 a.m, I later when to the Beach Club in Jalan Sultan Ismail to watch another scenario and special scene from them. Well, all I can say that I saw Marilyn Monroe with her blonde hair, Britney Spears with her super short skirts and Beyonce Knowles with her unbutton clothes. I give two thumbs up for their bravery and daring-ness.

One week later went to one of the gay club with my gay and bisexual friends to watch how do this group of people socialize and have fun. Well, we all know how do they have fun right? So, I'll skip that part. It turned out that they are not that bad. They just want people to accept who they are regardless their appearance and attitude. I know that many of Malaysian citizens discriminate and isolate this type of people. What I don't understand is why? Who give you the rights to isolated them? Yes. Even though what they did is wrong and against our law in both Islam and Civil but, discrimination is not the way to solve it. It is true that I strongly oppose to gay marriage and trans gender but, I still believe in human rights. Some people might refer them as "Dr. Jackyll and Mr. Hyde" Transforming themselves when the sun set. I however refer them as the "Transformers" without knowing why.

All I wanted to say here is, no matter who they are, what they did, we do not have the rights to treat them like one big group of black-sheep in the farm. Everything starts from home and school. So, to moms and dads out there, I do not ask you to watch every movement of your kids. It is enough when you know where they went, who their friends and please treat them like one of your best friend. If you don't have one, find one. Your kids may be the first.

-nur dhiya abdullah-